The dilemma “The Ethicist” addressed on Sunday, October 7, 2018 in the New York Times.
The Barometer is speechless, although not without questions:
Why is this a worry if the relationship is so damaged that you are leaving? Why is there still intimacy if you are leaving? Why not just end the marriage? If this is the level of respect and trust between the spouses, isn’t the marriage pretty much shot? Why interfere with your spouse’s future? Is this one last round kick whilst heading out the door?