The 1.5-minute video is difficult to watch. Two teens girls, ages 13 and 15, confronted Uber Eats driver, Mohammad Anwar, 66, while this humble Pakistani immigrant was trying to eke out a living working for a company run by billionaires. Mr. Anwar resisted as the teens tasered him. They managed to take the car, with Mr. Anwar hanging onto the driver’s door. Recklessly careening, the teens crashed the vehicle. Mr. Anwar was crushed by the driver’s door when the teens struck a pole. The vehicle then overturned crushing Mr. Anwar on the sidewalk. The two teens ran away. However, one returned, distraught and yelling repeatedly, “My cellphone is in that car,” pointing to the upside-down vehicle next to Mr. Anwar.
The teens had just engaged in a series of events that resulted in the murder of Mr. Anwar and the primary concern was retrieving a cellphone, something that would required stepping over the body of a man whose life they had taken.
How do we have such detail? Why, bystanders filmed this horror but did not step in to help Mr. Anwar or stop the fleeing teen girls. The video is not for the fainthearted. Indeed, the video itself is a documentary on how far we have slipped, nay jumped, into an “every man, woman, child for themselves” society.
Today a Wall Street Journal reporter documented how smugglers tossed a six-month-old baby into the waters of the Rio Grande because border agents were approaching. The logic behind their attempted infanticide was that the agents would try to save the baby, thereby giving them time to escape. The inhumanity at the border is suspected, but not addressed. Photos of conditions escape the media lockdown on coverage, and we are, of course, “shocked, shocked,” but do nothing.
We are back to the days of Kitty Genovese, a young woman murdered as tenants in an apartment complex heard and watched the assault but did nothing. Many scholars have argued that the bystander effect that arose in the Kitty Genovese murder could never happen again. We are different now, they maintain. We are different. We are worse. Not only do we not step in to help, we step back and record the events, hoping for 5.5 million views of our work documenting slaughter and inhumanity Mr. Anwar, a husband, a father, a grandfather, an uncle, a hard-working immigrant is dead. The senseless acts of two teens killed him. Not to worry — it is all on YouTube. No word yet on what happened to the cell phone.
What manner of people are we? Beyond what is described here, the coverage of the teen’s grief over her cellphone is missing from most of the stories covering this senseless tragedy. Oh, the society we have created. Missing a text message is the priority, not the missing life.